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The Dating and Life of an Normal Singapore Guy

Let us zero into the dating experience of a typical Otaku/ homeboy.

From the time the baby boy is born, there are many stages he is destined to go through before he becomes a full-grown man.

As Boys, they never really care much in their younger days, doing whatever pleases them till they hit their teens.

Then this is the time that his body will start to change, he will start finding once what was used to be barren places of his body will start growing weeds . Next his voice changes, No longer he speaks in a high pitch voice. And he will find the apple seed protruding out.

Suddenly, at this age he starts to notice that some of the fairer sex is really attractive and appealing to Him.
From a biology standpoint, this is nature’s call to tell him that he is ready to mate because he is going through puberty

Unfortunately due to culture / upbringing in Singapore
At this age where his calling and urges from nature is strongest, there are many challenges ahead for him.

Firstly, He has to perform in school and pass all his exams and score good grades.
The interaction with the opposite sex is greatly reduced because most of his time will be buried under books.
This minimize the opportunities for him to find out more on the girls
(In the serious case, If he is from All Boys School; he might even turn gay because of imbalance
interactions and exposure. This maybe due to the needs to release his feelings)


Secondly, during school holidays, Boys have lots of things to make him stay at home from going out . Things like Internet, computer games, comics. Those things play a part to prevent him from going out to socialize with the opposite sex. Slowly the subject of woman becomes a mystery to them. This makes them more undeveloped in the area of social skills.


Of course, there are curious cats who want find out more. At this informative age, simply just by clicking on the net they will find some answers. Ironically, most of the answers they find are normally from pornography sites. I will be blunt here ok? This “visual pleasure” is in fact is slowly destroying their ability to communicate with a woman in the latter years.

Some guys will have this thinking, why make a big fuss about attracting a woman? I get pleasure everything I log on to my Internet. So accessible.
But the truth here is that he is short changing himself in meeting someone who is real instead of a computer.

After He reaches a certain age, He will be drafted into (NS) National Service. There you have it, this time he will be cut off from almost all interactions with gals for two years. When he finally ORD, he is literal as lost as a blind bat regarding about matters regarding woman.

Next he finds a job (let’s say a Engineering, IT or office job)
What are the chances for him to interact with the woman she likes?
If he in Engineering, he looks at machines and computer all day ( basically 5% chances). Maybe the woman she meets is the cleaner. (Hoping that Auntie has a gorgeous daughter or relative to intro him.
If he is working in the office, slightly better, but still enclosed in his own cubicle most of the time

So Let’s say when he really meet the gals of his dreams in His workplace, what will he do?

1) Try his best to engage a conversation with her hopping that he might attract her (even though he has not been socializing and does not have the skills to draw her attention to himself)

Or
2) Watch her from afar, hoping someday, something will happen and she is feeling the way as he is, and maybe things will work out

Or

3) Will he just watch quietly and see another guy who comes along and grab her away, and thus live life broken hearted?

Please kindly understand where we are coming from dear brothers. We are not making fun of them at all.

Maybe your friend has encountered such experiences , maybe yourself. These are real issues.
HBK and myself is not here to boast of our knowledge, we want to share it with you.
We don't want to revel, we want to reveal the secert to you.

The Secrets of Attracting the woman whom you Desire

Yes, You!

My Tragic First date - (1994)

My First ever date was when I was 15. Lifeng was her name and I can still remember her face and I finally managed to ask her out for a Movie! I felt like heaven was so near me, no knowing that Hell is right at the corner.

That day was a Saturday and I was starting to feeling butterflies in my stomach the night before, I couldn't sleep you know? LOL.

I was so happy and yet nervous. When I finally met her Tiong Barhu Mrt, I nearly fainted. Dream came True.

There she is, the dream gal in my teenage years. I was telling myself, Oh shit! What Am I going to do next?

At there it was, the date went downhill after that. We went to movies on a first date. (If you are thinking of watching movie on a first date, I suggest not. Why?
Because the interactions between you and the girl will greatly be minimized.)

I was so nervous and I was tongued-tied and didn't dare to look into her eyes, always shying away from her Eye Contact. We just plainly watch the movie and when it was over, she noted to me she was tired and kept yawning. Shit Shit Shit!
She felt the weird Vibe and that was the one and only date we had.

Have ever you encountered that before?
Screwing up a big date? I did and I know how that Feels.
Maybe you are better off then me. Yup I was the loser during time. LOL
Today when I look back I can just laugh about it

Fast forward 13yrs later. I dated numerous beautiful gals after that, each time they will keep laughing and really enjoyed themselves. Most of all they feel that Love is in the air and Sparks fly. I wished I could show you the sms and the little cards they write. Ladies acting like little gals. They are really Sweet.

It took me years to find out the key. Now we want you to be like us. No, Better than us! We want to share our joy and what we have learnt along the way and minus off the years of pain we have gone through and Jump right into the Pool of Joy!

Cheers -BJ

Are you Edison Chen?

Are you Edison Chen? Rich and good-looking, you can get any girl you want just by asking. Well, almost. It seems our Dawn Yang once rejected him. But you know his record, its all over the news.


Full Article: http://www.asiaone.com/News/Latest%2BNews/Asia/Story/A1Story20080226-51452.html

An excerpt from messenger conversations with Eddie:

*** says:
how bout u come to town on the 29th

*** says:
19th i mean

xxx says:
as in hk?

*** says:
yeah we maybe get a nice suite

*** says:
and get freeky all night and day

*** says:
heheh how bout it will u do it wid me babee

It works, if you are Edison Chen, and you hit on the right women.



But since most of us here are not as good looking and rich as EDC, we need some tools and techniques to communicate right with the girl we are interested in and attract them along the way.

Gaming and attraction online was the first thing that BJ shared with me. MSN and Facebook, tools to know more women for the home boy or the shy guy. For a hot enough girl, she probably has hundreds of guys sending her messages and all, how do you be the one who catches her attention? Why would she chat with you if you're not the one who stands out from the crowd?

He gave a live demo and then gave me tips as I was having MSN conversations with several ladies. He was good. It was all good fun, and it works.

Simple guidelines:
1) Have a good display picture (nobody is ugly, you just have to work the angles or do some imaging).
2) Be interesting (think out of the box).
3) Never seem needy (needy guys/girls are a turn-off, yeah once you begin this adventure, you will find the needy girls a turn-off too).
4) Understand why she is now chatting with you and keep it up.

There are many more tools and techniques to work your game online. If you're keen, a live session would be useful. Drop us an email at tight.nutz@gmail.com and we will update you on the upcoming sessions.

Feel free to comment and ask questions, BJ and I will help you as much as possible.

Have fun,
HBK

HBK - How I met BJ

Hey y'all,

Just a short intro on how I hopped on to this crazy adventure.

BJ's like my long lost childhood friend and I got his number once when our parents had a short meet-up. First impression after so many years; super well-groomed.

After a few months, I kinda broke up with my girlfriend and wanted to spend more time with friends. So I sms-ed him for his MSN and bam! We talked about everything under the sun and as most guys do, talk about girls. I was kinda lost with girls then, as I just left a super long relationship and have already left my dating skills behind. BJ enlightened me with delight. This guy is really out here to help. I was amazed.

Trust me, we've went out and I've seen crazy things happen. Crazy in a good way, if you know what I mean.

Keep us in your feed, favourites, whatever.

Join our crazy adventure.



Regards,
HBK

Calling all OTAKUS- 宅男

Today I am reaching out to those of the race of Otakus, “ 宅男”.
I am burdened to share my knowledge to them. One can never identify to a certain group unless they are part of them.

Yes, I am with them, for them and part of them. We are a group of kindhearted people (friends, please bear with us for a second, if you love us, vomit later).
We mind our own business and are only interested in our own hobbies. We are happy with our own world.

But things changed, when our hearts tells us that there is this particular girl that we must see everyday, it means us feel happy inwardly and satisfied. This particular gal might be our colleague, our classmate, someone who takes the same bus, or the salesgirl at a particular store. We know we like her because we kept thinking about her everyday. But our feet and our mind will never tell us to approach her. Why?


The Word is fear of Rejection.
Our mind will sabotage us and suddenly skilled in the art of reasoning.
We convinced ourselves with these stupid reasons.

“What if she already has a boyfriend?”
“ Aiyah, she won’t like me one lah”
“ I am not rich”
“ I am not Good looking, I don’t have the looks of brad Pitt, David Beckham, Andy Lau, etc.”
“ I don’t know what to say to her”
“ She is not free to talk “

Does that excuses ring a bell? LOL. Maybe now you suddenly realize that you are expert negotiator and a prophet ( can predict what is going to happen). We convinced ourselves with these assumptions everyday.

FEAR is interpreted as False Evidence Appearing Real.

At this time, I remembered one good thing that I have picked up from my friend,
His name is Joe; he is happily married with an ex-stewardess. Man, he was a Ladies man and a killer during his time. He is confident and never in a situation that will catch him off-guard in the social arena

This, he shared with me. “ BJ, sometimes, you think too much. Remember this thumb of rule: JDI, Just Do it”

Yes, Just do it ! go and talk to her. What’s the Big deal? We wouldn’t die right?
You might ask me how? I really don’t know.
Don’t worry, everyone have a degree of fear , Don't worry we will hold your hands and teach you step by step.

Stay tune for the next update.

With love and respect,
Your fellow otaku brother.

BJ

Stories

Well, I guess I need to introduce myself slightly
Probably at the back of the mind, one of the questions you are thinking,
Who the heck is this BJ guy?
And why should I be listening to him? Is he weirdo? Nah.

Well, I am BJ here. I am in my 30s, enjoying the time of my life now.
Life begins at 30! For me, I enjoyed my social life whereby it was fruitful and exciting.

I am grateful for those people that built me for where I am today.

The FACT is ….

It didn’t start out like that.

I am not the borne natural or the ladies man. In Fact I was a real goon and a loser in the past. Those type whereby one will stay at home and hog on his RPG
24/7, geek type of guy. Always uneasy about socializing with others’.
I remembered I was not able to hold eye contact with the opposite sex more than 2 seconds. I will either look up or look down. And away.

There was this gal that I was really into at that time. The intensity I would say was crazy. You know, I will just be satisfied to see her from afar.
Walk on the paths she walked and steal glances of her here and there.
But Never dared to walk to her and hold a conversation. To cut the story short,
She fell in love with a Guy; Obviously the Guy is not me. ( awwwww.. If it happens to you also, dun feel bad. Your brudder here knows how you feel also)

But Things Changed after that, I started to meet different persons in my life because of my previous Job with enables me to travel frequently to the states. They contributed their knowledge to since I was so slow and dense concerning the opposite sex.

Well I must thank them of their craps and pranks on me. Mostly importantly their words of wisdom that mould me.

For the next Series, I will list down the plus points of the males I meet that attracts Woman to them like magnet. If you ask them how they managed to do it.
They will give you these answers that you will feel strangling them on the spot.
“Sorry, I Just can’t help it” or “ I dun know man, it just happened”

Is it True to what they say? Yes, they produce results but they are not able to relate to the others how exactly what they did.

We are going to break it down and analyze their strengths. From there, we will absorb it as ours. Good deal huh?

Be patient –
With Best regards,
BJ

What do women really want? ( Part 3)

Generally, Woman want a man in whom she can Trust and respect.
She wants to be loved, and she wants to be loved intimately.

To a Woman, SEX is a submission to her Man's tenderness and his love for her.

She must feel secure in her Mate's love that is true to her and her alone. Then she will be willingly and gladly submits to him physically.

The Wise men are thoughtful about the fact that even thought they maybe aroused physically, his woman may not be aroused or turned on in such a manner.

I Remembered this quote " If a guy does not express love to his woman in the day, then forget about your woman expressing love to you at night "

Woman needs encouragement and the feeling of being love and appreciated.

Things to do (Guys):
* Compliment them, even it's the slightest thing that she has done for you.
* Come on, it doesn't cost too much just to open your mouth right? by that I don't open your mouth and say nothing ...Duhz.
* Tell her how wonderful she is and what a fine contribution she has made to your life.
* Keynote: Don't Fake it, say it from the bottom of your heart. (Their feelers can tell even if there is a 0.01 percent of fako and any lies in it)

- BJ

What do women really want? ( Part 2)

If you ask a woman the above questions, they will give you 1001 answers. Well if you get a lady who is really helpful she will tell you her whole story. (Caution it may take 40hours at least)

It is because different woman are pursuing different things.
Some go for looks, financial security, starting an own family ...etc. Better stop here, or not too long-winded.

We once did a project on this and had some awesome findings. We will post it up soon. And we found there too many answers to those Questions. Many hilarious ones too!! Some choose to draw it out. Creative. Nice work.

Of course, there is obvious one, which a goon will even recite them to you. (Yes, you bet, they read alot of self-help books on it and all the men’s' , female's advice forum on the topic)

The truth is that most of the woman is unable to articulate what they are really looking for. (This is true among ladies from ranging from 3- 43)

Every Woman was brought up knowing exactly the way it would make her feel to have someone special and have the ideal man.

Oh Yes, It is that Feeling that she must experience when a handsome stranger sweeps her off her feet.

A Woman does not choose a man because of who he is, she choose him because of how it makes her feel.

Think about it and feel what I just shared.
- BJ

What do women really want? ( Part 1)

This is a very big question to ask. It has been a mystery for centuries. Those who found it kept them deep and were unwilling to share, for this Gem is priceless.

Many Men have attempted to answer it and some ventured into this deep adventure and many Brave warriors have risked their lives for us to bring out this truth.

Other simply just accept that Woman cannot be known. That was a lame excuse by Man and surprisingly woman buy that idea too. Maybe they are disappointed but deep down they wish that Men at least take the effort to find out.

We are standing on the shoulders of our dear brothers and looking into something new in this generation. Let's Explore !

- BJ

Introduction - Must Read but at your own Risk !

Who are we and where are we heading?

A group of brothers were talking about our dating experiences over our meals, and yes we have this crazy idea to pen down and consolidate all the precious life lessons we learned (gained through countless trial and error, tears and blunders), But life was very good to us, all of us are blessed with the very special person in our lives.

Yes, you heard us; we have been through the lowest valley and the peak of our dating lives. We enjoyed the moments and the process of getting there with style.No matter who you are, over dated, under dated or never been in a date before (the last category, call our number ASAP!)

You will find something useful in helping you find your soul mate, or get a date or dates. Or close the deal to get married (the list goes on etc.)

We, the Tightnutz bros will help you unscrew your situation and extend our helping hands to you.Yes, We understand your situation, cos all of us been there sometime in our lives. Time to shake it off your back and arise and Kick Ass my friend!!

Yes, We care
Tight Nuts Brothers.