Let us zero into the dating experience of a typical Otaku/ homeboy.
From the time the baby boy is born, there are many stages he is destined to go through before he becomes a full-grown man.
As Boys, they never really care much in their younger days, doing whatever pleases them till they hit their teens.
Then this is the time that his body will start to change, he will start finding once what was used to be barren places of his body will start growing weeds . Next his voice changes, No longer he speaks in a high pitch voice. And he will find the apple seed protruding out.
Suddenly, at this age he starts to notice that some of the fairer sex is really attractive and appealing to Him.
From a biology standpoint, this is nature’s call to tell him that he is ready to mate because he is going through puberty
Unfortunately due to culture / upbringing in Singapore
At this age where his calling and urges from nature is strongest, there are many challenges ahead for him.
Firstly, He has to perform in school and pass all his exams and score good grades.
The interaction with the opposite sex is greatly reduced because most of his time will be buried under books.
This minimize the opportunities for him to find out more on the girls
(In the serious case, If he is from All Boys School; he might even turn gay because of imbalance
interactions and exposure. This maybe due to the needs to release his feelings)
Secondly, during school holidays, Boys have lots of things to make him stay at home from going out . Things like Internet, computer games, comics. Those things play a part to prevent him from going out to socialize with the opposite sex. Slowly the subject of woman becomes a mystery to them. This makes them more undeveloped in the area of social skills.
Of course, there are curious cats who want find out more. At this informative age, simply just by clicking on the net they will find some answers. Ironically, most of the answers they find are normally from pornography sites. I will be blunt here ok? This “visual pleasure” is in fact is slowly destroying their ability to communicate with a woman in the latter years.
Some guys will have this thinking, why make a big fuss about attracting a woman? I get pleasure everything I log on to my Internet. So accessible.
But the truth here is that he is short changing himself in meeting someone who is real instead of a computer.
After He reaches a certain age, He will be drafted into (NS) National Service. There you have it, this time he will be cut off from almost all interactions with gals for two years. When he finally ORD, he is literal as lost as a blind bat regarding about matters regarding woman.
Next he finds a job (let’s say a Engineering, IT or office job)
What are the chances for him to interact with the woman she likes?
If he in Engineering, he looks at machines and computer all day ( basically 5% chances). Maybe the woman she meets is the cleaner. (Hoping that Auntie has a gorgeous daughter or relative to intro him.
If he is working in the office, slightly better, but still enclosed in his own cubicle most of the time
So Let’s say when he really meet the gals of his dreams in His workplace, what will he do?
1) Try his best to engage a conversation with her hopping that he might attract her (even though he has not been socializing and does not have the skills to draw her attention to himself)
Or
2) Watch her from afar, hoping someday, something will happen and she is feeling the way as he is, and maybe things will work out
Or
3) Will he just watch quietly and see another guy who comes along and grab her away, and thus live life broken hearted?
Please kindly understand where we are coming from dear brothers. We are not making fun of them at all.
Maybe your friend has encountered such experiences , maybe yourself. These are real issues.
HBK and myself is not here to boast of our knowledge, we want to share it with you.
We don't want to revel, we want to reveal the secert to you.
The Secrets of Attracting the woman whom you Desire
Yes, You!
